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Today's teens grapple daily with the increasing challenges of a very complex world. Technology liberates at the same time as it constrains. Peers and the media can function as lifelines, but also can contribute to confusion-even despair, and parents can spur a whole gamut of emotions. No wonder teens often don't know where to turn or what to do first. The rapid-fire messages that bombard them from minute to minute consistently contradict one another: Be yourself! Fit in! You have all the time in the world! Grow up!
Reality Quest begins each chapter with actual e-mail exchanges between real teens-or in online jargon, an IM-that relates to the chapter's topic. Then, essential details and supporting data provide opportunities for teens to explore the information. "Tests" complement each chapter, helping teens discover how they fit in with what they've learned and giving them an avenue to express their thoughts and feelings. The authors also have a website that ties in with the book and invites teens to express their views.
The combined use of factual data, teen-created IMs and other by-teens-for-teens contributions present a unique product-one that respects their intelligence and powers of reasoning, and at the same time empathizes at their level. Different from story collections because the contributions included are slice-of-life rather than literary, this book is sure to be a popular teen read.
For every teen struggling with these issues and more, Reality Quest will help them find answers throughout their journey to adulthood. |
CHAPTER ONE
U R (You Are) My Part of Reality
I've got an odd sense of reality. Sometimes the line between imagination and reality can become very fuzzy. Who's really to say? Shakespeare once wrote, 'All of life's a stage, and all of us merely players. We have our entrances and exits, and one man will play many parts.' Life and our reactions to it are entirely dependent upon the story we create. All people have their own image, their own character and their own role to play. What they do with it is up to their discretion. Some people decide to break the character of others in order to build their own; some work together to create something better than what they started with; and some find their own unique existence. No one can truly understand another person, and sometimes people cannot truly understand themselves. For me, I don't want to understand. The mystery makes life fun, and mystery creates the imaginary movie of my life. I see my life as a movie. Perhaps it is egotistical of me, but I find existence to be more interesting that way. I see interwoven plot lines, hear the inner monologues, see the different camera shots and hear the background theme music. Some people call me crazy. I call it . . . well . . . crazy, but in the most positive way possible.
I think I am a very unique person. I suppose I should start by saying I'm an optimist, or at least try to be. I have my own character and own place, even if I don't quite comprehend what they are. My self-esteem isn't entirely up to par, but I choose to find the good within myself. I've created an entire viewpoint and system of living with this mind-set. I've saved myself from pain and frustration with this mind-set. I have also broken myself with this mind-set, my hopes getting too high only to be shot down too hard.
I'm an intricate person. No one has seen every side of me, and some sides have only been seen by me—and perhaps my cat. I hold a different persona for every place I go, sometimes on purpose and sometimes I subconsciously change to fit or contrast my surroundings. People have been both intrigued and scared by this. I can only express this through a series of stories.
Over the years, I have experienced love, lust, possibilities and let-downs at the beach. It is where I let out all the emotions I've trapped from the previous year. This, obviously, changes who I am. The people I have met there have seen quite a few sides of me. The first time they met me they were introduced to the perky, curious and innocent side of me. I hadn't an ill word to say, and all I knew were beginnings. As time progressed, the world changed me, and they were subjected to cynicism and bitterness woven into the same optimism I hold onto. I've turned entirely mellow, or I've gone completely crazy, running about and just generally making a fool of myself. I've been witty, I've been flaky, but they've chosen to see only a few.
In recent years, they've even gone so far as to tell me I can't be who I am. I have to be who they met at first. They refuse to admit I've changed, and especially that they were part of the reason I've changed. This past year, I grew especially close to one of them, and countless times he was determined to see me happy and perky and otherwise not mellow and really at peace. I had a few things to let go of, but I chose to do that alone when I had the chance. I warned him that there was a very different side of me when I was away from my beloved ocean, and that if he ever got a chance to see that side of me, I was sure he would be surprised. He didn't entirely believe me at the time and continued in his determination. It turned out that we talked a lot more upon parting, and he admitted that he saw a change and said he liked it. After a while, however, I suppose he simply couldn't take the fact that I didn't stay as one. I rapidly changed, as some people have already grown used to, but he couldn't. 'You're scary,' he said. 'Be the person you were at the beach. She wasn't scary.' I hadn't the faintest idea how to react. The only thing I understood was that he didn't want me to be myself. I was to be a worldly creation, molded by what others wanted to see.
That's another point about my reality. I'd purposefully hidden many sides of me for the sake of protecting others and for the sake of creating an image of who I wanted people to see. Recently, I haven't been able to hold back as much as I'd like, or perhaps I haven't wanted to. Those subjected to it didn't react very well. They were used to the always cheerful, never angry and tolerant Shelly. Once she was gone, they took it as my not caring anymore. They were scared. They didn't know how to react. I suppose I created this for myself, but I didn't know how to react either. I couldn't stand it anymore. I have even frightened my mother and grandmother with my change in persona.
But I like me this way. I can't imagine myself any other way. I've hurt others and myself, but I've also lifted myself to immeasurable heights, and I will always know that I've lived, reacted and created my reality. I don't believe I'm the only one like this, and I don't care to label myself, but I can say that I am a player, and I possess my many parts, and I am another small part of this crazy reality. And that's all I ever want to be.
—Shelly, age 16
©2008. Donna Wells, Bruce C. Morris. All rights reserved. Reprinted from Reality Quest. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form or by any means, without the written permission of the publisher. Publisher: Health Communications, Inc., 3201 SW 15th Street, Deerfield Beach, FL 33442 |
Donna WellsDonna K. Wells is the Assistant Secretary of Public Safety for the Commonwealth of Virginia responsible for policy, planning and program development, as well as coordination and funding for domestic preparedness activities. She also directed 4 SAFE VA, the governor's school safety initiatives, and served as the Executive Director of the governor's New Partnership Commission for Community Safety. She speaks regularly at national conferences and workshops on youth safety and criminal-justice planning issues. Wells also serves as a faculty member of Virginia Commonwealth University's Commonwealth Educational Policy Institute and is a member of the Congressional Safety and Security Council.
Prior to assuming her current position, Wells served as the Policy and Planning Coordinator for the Virginia Department of Criminal Justice Services (DCJS). In that capacity, she served as liaison to the Criminal Justice Services Board and the U.S. Department of Justice. Wells also served as the state Youth and School Safety Specialist and developed numerous school and youth safety programs and initiatives. She was also instrumental in the development of the national Serious Habitual Offender Program. Wells began her career as a high-school English and reading specialist.
Wells has also authored or coauthored articles in numerous publications and journals, including Police Chief, The Journal of Juvenile and Family Court Judges, The National School Safety Journal, The Journal of Police Science and Administration and Law and Order. For several years, she wrote a weekly newspaper column, It's Elementary, for the (Norfolk, Virginia) Virginian-Pilot and Ledger-Star. The column was syndicated to several other newspapers. Additionally, Wells has published five nonfiction children's resource books.
In addition to her research and writing, Wells's professional affiliations have included the Virginia Preparedness and Security Panel on Terrorism, the Virginia Department of Education School Violence Task Force, the Southeast Regional Center for Drug-Free Schools and Communities, Class Action, the Youth Alcohol and Drug-Abuse Prevention Project, the Virginia Partnership for the Prevention of Youth Violence, and the Virginia Association of Law Enforcement Explorer Advisors.
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Bruce C. MorrisBruce C. Morris serves as Chief Deputy Secretary of Public Safety for the Commonwealth of Virginia. In addition to the daily operational oversight of eleven public-safety agencies, Morris supervises the state's domestic preparedness initiatives, serving as the governor's coordinator for terrorism preparedness and as chairman of the state domestic preparedness multiagency working group. He is the Coordinator for the Virginia Preparedness and Security Panel on Terrorism and a member of the Congressional Safety and Security Council. By designation of the governor, he is the FBI Single Point of Contact for the Commonwealth on Weapons of Mass Destruction issues and programs, and the Single Point of Contact to the national Homeland Security Office. Additionally, he, with coauthor Donna K. Wells, was the architect of Virginia's statewide criminal-justice plan and the Governor's Comprehensive Crime Prevention Plan for Virginia.
Morris's criminal-justice experience spans two decades. Morris served previously as Deputy Secretary of Public Safety, Chairman of the Parole Board, and Director of the Department of Criminal Justice Services. He was twice elected Commonwealth's Attorney (state prosecutor) for the combined jurisdictions of Harrisonburg and Rockingham County, Virginia.
A frequent lecturer on criminal justice and public- safety topics, Morris also serves as a faculty member of Virginia Commonwealth University's Commonwealth Educational Policy Institute.
Morris graduated with distinction from the Virginia Military Institute, where he is a member of the Board of Visitors, and received his Juris Doctorate degree from the William & Mary Marshall-Wythe School of Law.
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ISBN-10: 155874956X
ISBN-13: 9781558749566
HCI-Item: 956X
Book Format: Paperback
Page Count: 300
Publication Date: 10/1/2002
Category: HCI Teens/Young Adults/Non Fiction/Teens/YA
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